Society expects a certain code of conduct. Behavioral patterns or manners have to be a part of our personality. Children too are taught not to litter, speak with her mouthful or not use excessive tones while speaking. Etiquette helps us to conduct our self in front of others and certainly adds a persona to our social conduct. One may be reserved but in no way cut-off from social wants and respectability. Just as we dress to improve our looks or go for grooming sessions, ones behavior must also enhance the need to be accepted by the society.
Etiquettes are not just about high-tea conduct or official grooming but simple ways about how we react or speak. A person speaking on the mobile must excuse himself so that others are not disturbed by the same. Similarly in limited places or closed rooms it is wise to keep the mobiles in silent mode. This gives an impression of you respecting others and also proves that you respect your own self. Handshake etiquette also has to be learnt well.
Protocols need to be followed while waiting for a movie queue or using the wash room. This is a mark of respect for all of those present there and it signifies value for time and money. Definitely during an emergency there is the use of golden words like ‘please’ and ‘excuse me’ but it is preferable to make the gestures considerate and be gentle during such expressions. It is fine to be angry and express discomfort but yelling and howling is a mark of disreputable behavior. Nothing is achieved by the same but it does harm your reputation.
It is civic sense not to litter around the place and also important to respect traffic rules. While the laws do indicate Earth hours and no honking days it is important to imbibe a bit of discipline and do a bit towards the society to be acceptable and also realize a lot of peace of mind. The conduct is expected from a keen age. While speaking to the child, mothers never use profanities. Schools insist the use of golden words and also are assertive about following rules. This is just to groom the child towards etiquettes which slowly become habitual.
The word expression connotes many temperaments. Though being selective is a prerogative an appropriate behavior is expected from all of us. In case you do not like a vegetable in your dish, then make sure not to make a face or be diplomatic when it is about to be served to you. Acceptable table manners are many and it is for our own good.
There are various influences that expect a behavior. These may be predominantly our background, the hosts background, moral behavior, cultural and economic influences. To be able to adjust in the world is the necessity for survival. Communicating clearly and effectively is just another means of observing etiquettes.